All of us women notice the little things our husbands do and we wonder why he couldn’t have just done it “right”. For example, my husband will leave a kitchen cabinet door open or the coat closet is never shut all the way. I mean, is it really that hard after all?
Anyway, in my younger days I would have been upset and said something like, “Can’t you just shut the cabinet door or the closet door all the way?” Now, in my 40’s, I have learned that there are something’s that are not worth getting upset about. So I just laugh or smile and shut the kitchen cabinet door. Or when walking by the coat closet and I see it not closed all the way and just think. “That is my John!” and I just shut it.
“The wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down.” ~Proverbs 14:1
As wives, we need to build our husbands up not tear them down. We are all imperfect and simply we can not expect our husbands to be perfect.
Something that I did for my husband that put a huge smile on his face. He arrived home last week to this sidewalk chalk driveway note.
Love & Blessings,